My Theme Report

My theme report says that I am strategic, adaptable, relator, includer, and connectedness. I agree with all of them and here's why.
I agree with the strategic because I do look at all the options and see what happens if I take a certain option. Then I eliminate the ones that lead to a dead end or get me nowhere. Then I can also see certain patterns and then remember it for future uses and it has helped me many times to predict the outcome of many things. I look at a situation like a puzzle thrown into a maze, I see all the paths I can take but with the clues that I have picked up can use them to get a closer look to where each path will take me.
Then it says I have adaptability. I couldn't agree more because I do live in the moment. My motto is to stick out yet blend in and I've done that for many years and it's been great. Some peeopl believe that your future and destiny is set and there's nothing that you can do about it. To me, I say so what if your future is set, it doesn't mean that you can't do what you want to do because of fear that it might ruin the future laid out for you. If it was meant to happen then it will happen. I am also a very flexible person that can go with the flow so easy it's like I was born to be in whatever group or activity I decide to join. Although I don't have that driven need to fit in or to be liked or dislike the thought of people disliking me, I still manage to stay on people's good side and fit in.
I think most people would agree that I am a relator because when they come to me with their problems or ask for my advice, I can easily put myself in their situation and be able to give them the answer they want or the answer that would help out their situation. This theme has helped me be closer with many of my friends and I am so thankful because they helped me out the way I have helped them out. There are so many things that I have to thnk my friends because I think the ones who have helped me out a lot are relators too. Everything they say makes so much sense and I sometimes can't believe that I didn't think of that.
The includer, I never would have not believed that this would be me until I read the dscription for it. Then I became a believer. Looking back at all those times where I was in an unknown group or when I would be with two sets of my friends. That when I see someon who seems to be out of the loop I would try to drag them in whether they liked it or not. Although they may have hated me at the beginning for doing that even I didn't know them, the seemed to be enjoying themselves at the end and have forgotten that they were angry at me. I walk around and when I see someone who doesn't fit it, I just want to go over there and try to encourage them to make friends or something. I do think that everyone is equal and yet so very different and that they all want the same thing. To be accepted amoung friends and to still be able to stand out.
Being connected is what I strongly feel throughout every aspect of my life. This, I guess is what has to do with my other philosophy that there are no such things as coincidence. Everything does happen for a reason even if you don't see it now and no matter how irrelevent or how small. It's still a reason that could be connected to something bigger. This is the big part of me that LOVES to think outside the box, to quesiton everything in this world and makes good assumptions and guesses on why things happen. This is the deeper part of me that I love to talk about but people now a days don't want to bother themselves with things like this. Life's mysteries and how people and their thoughts and what makes them tick is what sustains me and drives me. It's all those things that people don't really think about that interest me. Even though I may not know the truth of it all anytime soon, it's just something that's fun to think about.